12.13.2007
The Root of Jesse
A confused pine tree that smells like citrus sprouts from the living room rug, out of place at any time of the year but this; we hardly wonder at indoor trees and needles now. Our tree is not yet a Christmas tree, though it does get decorated each day with a new paper ornament. It serves as our Jesse tree until Christmas Eve, when, anticipating the next morning's fulfillment in a baby's form, we'll deck it out in lights and a tacky array of hodge-podge. We'll also move the shepherds from their hill, take the baby from the box, and a trio of wise men will begin following the star-- a treacherous journey taking them from the upstairs of our house to the nativity scene under the tree.
We've celebrated Advent since Millie was a baby, starting with a pauper's quintet of mismatched candles and, with the extra space provided by last year's move, moving our way to a bonafide advent wreath. This year, we've added a Jesse tree to our celebration of Advent, along with daily scripture reading and ornament-making on top of the nightly scripture and liturgy.
I am so thankful for this. I grew up in a renegade family. We celebrated Christmas but were part of the Meeting in which other brethren viewed it as a pagan holiday. The disparity between sacred and secular was keenly felt by my parents, especially my dad, and Christmas morning always brought with it a solemn scripture reading and prayer after breakfast, to balance out the eventual stocking upending and gift opening. Without a framework in which to properly approach Christmas Day, it was difficult not to be swallowed by the excitement of all the pomp and circumstance and forget the Child for most of the day. Celebrating Advent has unified the two for me. It's hard enough for adults to properly wrap our minds and hearts around the singular happening of the Virgin Birth and what God as Man signified; how can we expect children to properly celebrate it if we distract them for an entire month with nearly everything but that?
We spend the weeks before Christmas refreshing our memories of Jesus's ancestry, the men and women from whom He came, which focuses our attention and points toward one thing only--Christ Himself. Of course, the girls still shriek to draw our eyes to every decorated house we pass in the night, and we bellow Christmas carols loudly enough for people in China to hear, but rather than one extended celebration, the Advent season is one of recognition that we sit in darkness, waiting for the Light. When it comes, Christmas is the rightful culmination of this waiting, in which we can celebrate fully and joyfully with gifts and feasting.
I am thankful for Advent today. I'm thankful that the excitement building in us is not just about the coming eggnog (!), the tree decorating, and the gift-wrapped mysteries, but about the greatest Mystery this world will ever know. So, yes, let's look forward to fun and family, bright red stockings with oranges stretching out the toes, and eating our once-a-year sugar cereal in fancy, holiday bowls. Yet more, let us look forward to Christmas Day and the birth of Jesus, and greater still, let us look forward to His coming again!
Let it be so.
I think yours is a wonderful tradition! :) Extra-Special for the kiddos! Sorry I've been remiss at posting comments lately, it isn't for lack of reading; mind you. It's just that things have been busy (as I'm sure you understand!) I was so happy you came to the Adoption Party and we were able to visit a bit. You and the girls looked wonderful :)
ReplyDelete"It's hard enough for adults to properly wrap our minds and hearts around the singular happening of the Virgin Birth and what God as Man signified; how can we expect children to properly celebrate it if we distract them for an entire month with nearly everything but that?"
ReplyDeleteExcellent point! We have been having a hard time here trying to decide how to approach Christmas for our kids, as Dave and I were raised in households that most certainly did NOT place much emphasis on Christ's birth. We don't want to "fall in the ditch on the other side of the road", either, and toss out our tree, etc.
I think celebrating Advent, like you said, helps tie everything together. :)
I loved this post. Your Jesse tree is beautiful. The idea behind the Jesse tree is really such a wonderful thing-and something I hoped to incorporate into our traditions this year. Of course, I had grand plans to go all out for Advent too and now THAT hasn't happened either.
ReplyDeleteI am thankful, though, that while we didn't get to all the fun aspects of this season (and that, coincidentally, goes for the secular side of it as well as religious) I hear Corynn talking more about our Savior than of Christmas presents. That does a mothers' heart good, ya know?
And I will just shoot for next year, right? :-)
Lurker here... I found your blog through Jule Ann's (I went to Houghton with you, although you probably know my husband better). Anyway, I have been wanting to start Advent traditions with my son (he's 2 now) and was wondering if you had specific things that you did each day. Do you follow a book or web site as to what you do each day or do you just pick verses? Our church does weekly Advent readings each Sunday but nothing daily or particularly toddler appropriate, for that matter. I would love to hear what you do with your kids. Thanks!
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